J is not joining her friends for coffee

Thursday, 27 March 08: -

I was driving home with the girls. We were listening to Joanna Wang's CD and singing half way, J stopped and said, "Mummy, next time, when I grow up and if my friends call me to join them for coffee, I'm not going."

"Why?"

"Cos I am going to tell them I want to stay home and accompany my mummy.".....Oh Sweetie, I melt liao :)

"But by then you might think that I'm a pain and you can't wait to stay away from me."

"No mummy, I am not going to get married. It's so painful to give birth to babies. I will stay with you."

"That's what I said when I was at your age but now I'm a mother of 2....(plus, a widow). When you find a man whom you love so much, you will marry him."

"No, I make sure I won't"

After our dinner, I was using my laptop in the living room. J came and sat next to me. She took a brand new diary, flipped to the first page and scribbled something. Then she pushed that page right in front of my eyes and she wrote in BOLD: -

I DON'T WANT TO GET MARRIED!!!!

Ha Ha ha! Was that supposed to be a vow? So cute!